I take the firm position that parents do not owe their children a college education. If they can __1 it, they can certainly send them to the best universities. But they must not feel guilty if they can’t. If the children really want to go, they’ll find a 2 out. There are plenty of loans（货款）and scholarships for the bright and 3 ones who can’t afford to pay.
When children grow up and want to get married, their parents do not owe them a down payment on a house. They do not have the 4 to baby-sit their grandchildren. If they want to do it,it must be considered a(n) 5 not an obligation（责任，义务）.
Do parents owe their children anything? Yes,they owe them a great deal.
One of their obligations is to give their children personal 6 .A child who is constantly made to feel stupid and unworthy, constantly 7 to brighter brothers, sisters, or cousins will become so _8_ , so afraid of failing that he（or she）won’t try at all .Of course they should be __9__ corrected when they do wrong, but it’s often better to let children learn their mistakes by themselves in time.All our parents should do is to trust them, respect them, tolerate（宽容）them and give them chances to try and fail.They must learn to stand 10 .When criticisms（批评）are really needed,they should be 11 with praises,with a smile and a kiss.That is the way children learn.
Parents owe their children a set of solid values around which to build their lives.This means teaching them to 12 the rights and opinions of others;it means being respectful to elders,to teachers,and to the law.The best way to teach such values is by 13 .A child who is lied to will lie.A child who sees no laughter and no love in the home will have 14 laughing and loving.
No child asks to be 15 .If you bring a life into the world,you owe the child something.
| 小题1: | | A．find | B．get | C．afford | D．receive |
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| 小题2: | | A．supporter | B．help | C．path | D．way |
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| 小题3: | | A．handsome | B．honest | C．eager | D．worried |
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| 小题4: | | A．time | B．right | C．duty | D．energy |
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| 小题5: | | A．favor | B．pleasure | C．honor | D．service |
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| 小题6: | | A．worth | B．affair | C．belief | D．confidence |
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| 小题7: | | A．brought | B．compared | C．forced | D．taken |
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| 小题8: | | A．unsure | B．desperate | C．embarrassed | D．dependent |
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| 小题9: | | A．properly | B．gently | C．sincerely | D．severely |
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| 小题10: | | A．failure | B．examination | C．fault | D．test |
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| 小题11: | | A．mixed | B．satisfied | C．shared | D．balanced |
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| 小题12: | | A．consider | B．recognize | C．respect | D．know |
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| 小题13: | | A．example | B．guidance | C．word | D．deed |
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| 小题14: | | A．worry | B．difficulty | C．fun | D．problem |
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| 小题15: | | A．praised | B．valued | C．born | D．loved |
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小题1:C。afford付得起。如果父母负担得起，当然可以把孩子送去最好的大学。
小题1:D。如果你的孩子有天赋真想上学，他们自会有办法way。
小题1:C。eager热切的；渴望的。对于聪明好学却付不起学费的人来说，借贷和奖学金的种类还是很多的。
小题1:C。have the duty to do sth.有责任做某事。父母没有给子女当保姆照看孩子的责任。
小题1:A。如果他们想这么做，那也只能看作是一种帮助favor，而绝不是一种义务。
小题1:A。父母的主要责任和任务之一，是让孩子们懂得自身的价值worth。
小题1:B。compare to与……相比较。一个青少年，如果总是拿他与比他聪明的兄弟姐妹或同龄的亲戚朋友相比。
小题1:A。如果总是让他感到自己愚蠢和无用，那他就会变得毫无自信unsure。
小题1:A。当然，如果子女做错了事，父母应该纠正他们的错误，这是孩子们学习做人的途径。
小题1:A。他们必须容忍失败failure。
小题1:D。不过，在教育子女时，批评应该与表扬并重balance，而且最好是面带微笑，并吻他一下。
小题1:C。要教育他们尊重respect别人的权利和意见。
小题1:D。deed行为。让孩子接受这些准则的最好办法是做父母的自己以身作则
小题1:B。have difficulty (in) doing sth.做某事有困难。在家庭里听不到笑声，感觉不到爱的孩子，也难施他人以爱，报他人以笑。
小题1:C。没有一个孩子是自己要求被生出来born的。 |
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题材分类等知识点的理解。
[详细]举一反三
Engineering students are supposed to be examples of practicality and rationality (理性), but when it comes to my college education I am an idealist and a fool. In high school I wanted to be an electrical engineer and, of course, any reasonable student with my aims would have chosen a college with a large engineering department, many famous professors and lots of good labs and research equipment. But that’s not what I did.
I chose to study engineering at a small liberal-arts (文科) university that doesn’t even offer a major in electrical engineering. Obviously, this was not a practical choice; I came here for more noble reasons. I wanted a broad education that would provide me with flexibility and a value system to guide me in my job. I wanted to open my eyes and expand my vision by communicating with people who weren’t studying science or engineering. My parents, teachers and other adults praised me for such a wise choice. They told me I was wise and grown-up beyond my 18 years, and I believed them.
I headed off to the college and sure I was going to have an advantage over those students who went to big engineering "factories" where they didn’t care if you had values or were flexible. I was going to be a complete engineer: technical expert and excellent humanist all in one.
Now I’m not so sure. Somewhere along the way my noble ideas crashed into reality, as all noble ideas finally do. After three years of struggling to balance math, physics and engineering courses with liberal-arts courses, I have learned there are reasons why few engineering students try to reconcile engineering with liberal-arts courses in college.
The reality that has blocked my path to become the typical successful student is that engineering and the liberal arts simply don’t mix as easily as I supposed in high school. Individually they shape a person in very different ways. The struggle to reconcile the two fields of study is difficult.
小题1:Why did the author choose to study engineering at a small liberal-arts university? | A．He intended to become an engineer and humanist. | | B．He intended to be a reasonable student with noble ideals. | | C．He wanted to be an example of practicality and rationality. | | D．He wanted to communicate with liberal-arts students. |
小题2:According to the author, by communicating with people who study liberal arts, engineering students can ___________. | A．become noble idealists | | B．broaden their knowledge | | C．find a better job in the future | | D．balance engineering and liberal arts |
小题3: Which word below can replace the underlined word “reconcile”?| A．confuse | B．compare | C．combine | D．compete |
小题4:The underlined sentence in 1st paragraph means ___________.| A．he has failed to achieve his ideal aims | | B．he is not a practical and rational student | | C．his choice of attending to a small liberal-arts university is reasonable | | D．his idea of combining engineering with liberal - arts is noble and wise |
小题5: The author suggests in this passage that ___________. | A．liberal-arts students are supported to take engineering courses | | B．technical experts with a wide vision are expected in the society | | C．successful engineering students are more welcomed in the society | | D．engineering universities with liberal-arts courses are needed |
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阅读下面的短文,掌握其大意, 然后从1-15各题所给出的A、B、C、D项中，选出最佳选项，并在答题卡上将该项涂黑。
Once a young man was in deep love with a girl. This man folded 1,000 pieces of paper cranes (纸鹤) as a gift to his girl. Although he was a small branch manager in a company, and his __1__ didn’t seem too bright, they were very __2__ together until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and would never come back. She also told him that she couldn’t see any future for both of them, “so let’s go our own __3__ from now on…” The young man was __4__, but he agreed. When he regained his __5__, he worked hard day and night, just to make something out of himself. Finally with all the __6__ work, this man set up his own __7__.
One rainy day, while this man was __8__, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain, walking to somewhere. He __9__ that they were his ex-girlfriend’s (前女友)parents, so he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to find him in his expensive car and to know that he had his own company, car, etc.
To the man’s surprise, the couple were walking towards a cemetery (墓地). He got out of his car and followed them. And there he saw his ex-girlfriend — a photograph of her __10__ as sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone, and those precious paper cranes in a glass bottle! He walked over and asked the couple why this had happened. They explained that __11__ she did not leave for France at all. She fell ill with cancer. In her heart, she had believed that he would __12__ some day. She didn’t not want her __13__ to be his barrier(障碍). Therefore, she chose to leave him. She asked her __14__ to put his paper cranes beside her, because if the day comes when fate brings him to her again he can take some of those back with him.
The man just cried __15__. He was heartbroken once again.
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| C. salary
| D. apartment
| 2. A. happy
| B. pleasant
| C. worried
| D. sensitive
| 3. A. futures
| B. goals
| C. ways
| D. courses
| 4. A. excited
| B. mad
| C. heartbroken
| D. puzzling
| 5. A. position
| B. confidence
| C. independence
| D. freedom
| 6. A. main
| B. beautiful
| C. hard
| D. heavy
| 7. A. office
| B. family
| C. studio
| D. company
| 8. A. running
| B. driving
| C. walking
| D. wandering
| 9. A. recognized
| B. noticed
| C. understood
| D. memorized
| 10. A. glaring
| B. talking
| C. smiling
| D. crying
| 11. A. fortunately
| B. recently
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Some people are lucky enough to be born with a good sense of direction and even if they have only visited a place once, they will be able to find it again years later.
I am one of those unlucky people who have poor sense of direction and I may have visited a place time after time but I still get lost on my way there. When I was young I was so shy that I never dared ask complete strangers the way and so I used to wander round in circles and hope that by some chance I would get to the place I was heading for.
I am no longer too shy to ask people for direction, but I often receive replies that puzzle me. Often people do not like to admit（承认）that they didn’t know their hometown and will insist on telling you the way, even if they do not know it; others, who are anxious to prove that they know their hometown very well, will give you a long list of directions which you can not possibly hope to remember, and still others do not seem to be able to tell between their left and their right and you find in the end that you are going in the opposite（相反的）direction to that in which you should be going.
If anyone ever asks me the way to somewhere, I always tell them I am a stranger to the town in order to avoid giving them wrong direction but even this can have embarrassing results.
Once I was on my way to work when I was stopped by a man who asked me if I would direct him the way to the Sunlight Building. I gave my usual reply, but I had not walked on a few steps when I realized that he had asked for directions to my office building. However, at this point, I decide it was too late to turn back and search for him out of the crowd behind me as I was going to meet with someone at the office and I did not want to keep him waiting.
Imagine my embarrassment when my secretary showed in the very man who had asked for directions of my office and his astonishment when he recognized me as the person he had asked.
小题1:What is the writer going to do when someone asks him for direction?
A．He will direct the right way to the person willingly.
| B．He will reply to it by the means of being a stranger to the town.
| C．He will give the very person long list of direction.
| D．He is going to show the man an opposite direction. |
小题2:Why did the writer consider himself to be an unlucky dog?| A．Because of his poor sense of direction. | | B．Because he always forget the way to home. | | C．Because he did not have any friend. | | D． Because he used to be shy and dared not ask others the way. |
小题3:How did the visitor feel when he was showed into the very room?| A．He felt strange. | B．He felt embarrassed. | | C．He felt very sad. | D．He felt astonished. |
小题4:Who showed the right way to the interviewee according to the passage?| A．Someone we don’t know. | B．The writer did it for himself.
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A woman came out of her house and saw three old men sitting in her front yard. She said, "I don’t think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat."
"Is the man of the house home?” they asked. "No", she replied, "He’s out." "Then we cannot come in", they replied.
In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened. "Go to tell them I am home and invite them in!" The woman went out and invited the men in. "We do not go into a house together," they replied. "Why is that?" she asked.
One of the old men explained that their names were Wealth(财富), Success and Love. Then he added, "Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home."
The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed and he suggested inviting Wealth to fill their home with wealth. And his wife wanted to invite Success; but their daughter-in-law suggested they should invite Love so that their home would be filled with love. At last the husband said to his wife. "Go out and invite Love to be our guest."
The woman went out and asked the three old men, "Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest."
Love got up and started walking toward the house.
The other two also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success: "I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?"
The old men replied together: "If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would have stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!"
小题1:The best title for this passage would be __________.| A．A Woman and Three Men | B．Wealth, Success and Love | | C．A Strange Thing Happened to a Woman | D．A Husband and his Wife |
小题2:The woman asked the three men to come in and have something to eat because _________.| A．she was a warm-hearted woman | B．they were her neighbors | | C．they asked her to do | D．they were her friends |
小题3:Who does the underlined word “the man” in the second paragraph refer to?| A．The woman’s son. | B．The woman’s father. | | C．The woman’s son-in-law（女婿） | D．The woman’s husband. |
小题4:It can be inferred（推断）from the passage that __________.| A．The three old men are brothers and they can’t be separated. | | B．The husband will refuse them in. | | C．The wife will be scolded by the husband. | | D．If a person has love, he will own everything. |
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80s came to the 41 . I heard him saying to the nurse that he was in a hurry for an appointment at 9:30.
The nurse had him take a 42 in the waiting area, 43 him it would be at least 40 minutes 44 someone would be able to see him. I saw him 45 his watch and decided, since I was 46 busy — my patient didn’t 47 at the appointed hour, I would examine his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor’s appointment.
The gentleman said no and told me that he 48 to go to the nursing home to have breakfast with his 49 . He told me that she had been 50 for a while and that she had a special disease. I asked if she would be 51 if he was a bit late. He replied that she 52 knew who he was, and that she had not been able to 53 him for five years now. I was 54 , and asked him, “And you 55 go every morning, even though she doesn’t know who you are?”
He smiled and said, “She doesn’t know me, but I know who she is.” I had to hold back 56 as he left.
Now I 57 that in marriages(婚姻), true love is acceptance of all that is. The happiest people don’t 58 have the best of everything; they just 59 the best of everything they have. 60 isn’t about how to live through the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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| 小题2: | | A．breath | B．test | C．seat | D．break |
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| 小题3: | | A．persuading | B．promising | C．understanding | D．telling |
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| 小题4: | | A．if | B．before | C．since | D．after |
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| 小题5: | | A．taking off | B．giving up | C．looking at | D．getting into |
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| 小题6: | | A．very | B．also | C．seldom | D．not |
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| 小题7: | | A．turn up | B．take in | C．come on | D．go away |
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| 小题8: | | A．needed | B．forgot | C．agreed | D．happened |
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| 小题9: | | A．daughter | B．wife | C．mother | D．sister |
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| 小题10: | | A．late | B．well | C．around | D．there |
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| 小题11: | | A．lonely | B．worried | C．doubtful | D．hungry |
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| 小题12: | | A．so far | B．neither | C．no longer | D．already |
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| 小题13: | | A．recognize | B．answer | C．believe | D．expect |
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| 小题14: | | A．moved | B．disappointed | C．surprised | D．satisfied |
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| 小题15: | | A．only | B．then | C．thus | D．still |
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| 小题16: | | A．chat | B．tears | C．words | D．judgement |
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| 小题17: | | A．realize | B．suggest | C．hope | D．prove |
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| 小题18: | | A．necessarily | B．completely | C．naturally | D．frequently |
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| 小题19: | | A．learn | B．make | C．favor | D．try |
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| 小题20: | | A．Adventure | B．Beauty | C．Trust | D．Life |
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